Finding Purpose in Selflessness: A Journey of Faith and Service

In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it's not uncommon to find ourselves caught up in the rhythm of putting others first. We're often reminded by the Bible to love our neighbors as ourselves, embracing the concept of selflessness. But in the midst of our altruistic endeavors, we may wonder: Is it really a good thing to constantly prioritize the needs of others over our own?

The pain that accompanies selfless acts becomes evident when the care and concern we pour out are not reciprocated. It stings when our expressions of vulnerability are dismissed, when our struggles are overlooked, and when we find ourselves continually at the bottom of the priority list for those we tirelessly care for. In these moments, we may find ourselves questioning the purpose of our selfless journey and asking, "Why am I here?"

In times of inner turmoil, it's comforting to turn to the timeless wisdom of the Bible. The Scriptures guide us through the complexities of human emotions and relationships. As we grapple with the challenges of selflessness, the words of Saint Mother Teresa offer solace: "People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway."

These words echo the biblical principle of forgiveness and resilience in the face of human imperfections. It's a reminder that our acts of kindness and selflessness are not contingent on the reactions of others. Instead, they are an offering to God, a reflection of our commitment to follow His teachings.

In the moments of feeling unappreciated and overlooked, it's crucial to reflect on the example set by Jesus Christ. As I sat in mass, drowning in self-pity, the Lord gently reminded me of His ultimate act of service. Jesus came not to be served but to serve, enduring unimaginable suffering for the sake of others.

Saint Mother Teresa's words and the example of Jesus challenge us to persevere in our selfless endeavors. They encourage us to build, be kind, be honest, and do good, even when faced with ingratitude and apathy. It's a call to emulate the character of Christ, who served willingly and sacrificially.

In my moment of self-reflection, I realized that my struggles and feelings of loneliness are minuscule compared to the challenges Jesus faced during His earthly journey. As I cast my worries and burdens on God, I pray for a servant's heart— a heart that seeks to decrease so that He may increase.

So, why am I here? The answer lies not in the accolades or appreciation from others, but in the divine purpose of serving as Christ served. It's a journey of faith, an opportunity to align our lives with the teachings of the Bible, and a chance to find fulfillment in being vessels of God's love and grace.

As we navigate the complexities of selflessness, let us find strength in the scriptures, solace in prayer, and inspiration in the example of Jesus. In doing so, we can discover a profound sense of purpose that transcends the transient challenges of human relationships.

Pray for me, I will pray for you,

Monica